In educating a child is an important factor in parents' experience for this "work". No one is born holding all knowledge, but we can learn and understand some things from books or advice from qualified persons.
Among the commandments a parent should strictly follow the following:
1. Do not underestimate your child - he can understand more than you think he does and if you make him believe you think ill of him that can affect your development.
2. Do not use threat - a child loves a challenge and once threatened, he could probably go ahead and do what he was supposed not only to see if he can escape punishment.
3. Do not bribe your child - if you're trying to learn it for money, for example, it will fail to understand the importance of learning, all that he will have all of this is the importance of money.
4. Do not promise something small children - small children can not keep the promises so do not force them to lie and then punish them because they did.
5. Do not keep them on a short leash - to grow normally, children need some space, some freedom.
6. Do not use big words or too many words when you're talking with your child - keep your ideas simple and concise, so that he can understand every thing you have to say.
7. Do not expect instant obedience and blind - not recommended, the child must be taught to think for yourself for not following orders.
8. Do not indulge in it very mush - he may develop compartment disorders.
9. Do not compromise when it comes to the rules of a game - the trick to become an educational game is too early have their rules respected.
10. Do not impose rules that do not go with the age of your child.
11. Do not try to impose quilt - quilt is not an appropriate feeling for children, especially if they are small.
12. Do not give orders to your child that you do not take it seriously - your child will try to please him and give him an order is drastic, and becomes cruel if that order is a joke.
All these "commandments" are addressed first to the father. But they are being referred by teachers and educators as well. Along with parents, they will resolve by an attitude and strategy for education and child's growth, so they can give you all the things he needs to develop adequately emotionally and physically.
Among the commandments a parent should strictly follow the following:
1. Do not underestimate your child - he can understand more than you think he does and if you make him believe you think ill of him that can affect your development.
2. Do not use threat - a child loves a challenge and once threatened, he could probably go ahead and do what he was supposed not only to see if he can escape punishment.
3. Do not bribe your child - if you're trying to learn it for money, for example, it will fail to understand the importance of learning, all that he will have all of this is the importance of money.
4. Do not promise something small children - small children can not keep the promises so do not force them to lie and then punish them because they did.
5. Do not keep them on a short leash - to grow normally, children need some space, some freedom.
6. Do not use big words or too many words when you're talking with your child - keep your ideas simple and concise, so that he can understand every thing you have to say.
7. Do not expect instant obedience and blind - not recommended, the child must be taught to think for yourself for not following orders.
8. Do not indulge in it very mush - he may develop compartment disorders.
9. Do not compromise when it comes to the rules of a game - the trick to become an educational game is too early have their rules respected.
10. Do not impose rules that do not go with the age of your child.
11. Do not try to impose quilt - quilt is not an appropriate feeling for children, especially if they are small.
12. Do not give orders to your child that you do not take it seriously - your child will try to please him and give him an order is drastic, and becomes cruel if that order is a joke.
All these "commandments" are addressed first to the father. But they are being referred by teachers and educators as well. Along with parents, they will resolve by an attitude and strategy for education and child's growth, so they can give you all the things he needs to develop adequately emotionally and physically.
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