What is the biggest obstacle that stops people, with the relationship they want most?

At the beginning of most relationships, a lot of fun, excitement and reading rules. Each partner is their best - pouring love and kindness. The expectations are high, and yet the needs are met easily and often.

But after a while things are changing and it seems that more and more efforts are needed to maintain the spark. Each partner may feel want to have "cash in" on all the affection they made and take a break to simply sit and receive the outpouring of love they were before.

Gradually, when they no longer supported in the same way, feel they take all their little sufferings, deploring the fact that the spark is gone. Along the way they discover that the relationship is not the solution to their problems, and many move to the next person at this point. Because they do not understand the dynamics of the relationships that they just want the easy part, not from work.

It is important to give relationships as a platform to think, rather than

There are many reasons why relationships do:

1). The law of familiarity - with decreasing negative emotion erode "anchor" and replace the original, positive effects.

A. Make sure, without taking the other person when you are in a bad state.

B. Use patterns to help each other interrupt in a fun way to keep control arguments.

2). Since we all have unique triggers or "anchor" that we associate with feelings of love and attraction. We just need to learn to always respond to these strategies.

A. Some of us prefer to show that we are loved to have: an optical perspective, or take us to special places or even buy us things.

B. Other people need words of love, in a certain tone of voice.

C. Others have to be touched in some way, for example. a soft or a need to firmly held sothey will know that you care passionately.

Each is different, you need to know how your partner feels the love.

You are always the relationship you want and want it to last. What must be done to preserve and improve?

1). First, know what strategy your partner feel loved, then respond consistently prefers.

2). Not to be caught in the "You know it first, and then I go" to learn to give play, what do you want more.

A. Use your enthusiasm to improve the quality of your relationship.

B. Try to ask questions that encourage the love expressed.

C. Work on creating memories together and plan to keep the special moments of spontaneity sparks play alive.

Without the full commitment to your relationship, nothing is permanent and measurable values in life are created or retained.

Their mission:

1). Identify your needs and desires in a relationship. Writing.

2). What is the relationship you have to be satisfied with itself and contribute effectively to its continued growth?

3). Make a list of funny things and unique, you can share together on a continuous basis.

There is so much information about relationships. These are just a few tips that I hope you find it useful.