Many of my previous article with the emotions that are common to everyone treated regardless of their position in life. In line with my idea, to achieve self-control, control of emotions is the key to a healthy and harmonious life. So where is the place of jealousy in the system of self-control and self-control? How ironic that the word is ugly part of one of the most devastating of human emotions.

Jealousy is one if not the enigma of the most complicated people. The term is overused as a simple response to anger when it is in fact a precursor to anger and fear. It is a cognitive response that triggers the perception of a threat to conduct a special relationship. These perceptions may be real or imaginary. They may include relationships, platonic and sexual nature and are sometimes used synonymously with envy, although the target of jealousy, maintain a relationship while envy is interested in a relationship.

Like many other feelings of jealousy in observations of the environment is anchored. Jealousy is an emotion Hand Me Down. More often than on empirical evidence not seen repeated by children growing up exercises in their own lives and the cycle. It is also highly dependent on low self-esteem, betrayal, real or imagined, self-doubt and eventually flow into the anger and fear of loss.

Jealousy can be the worst factor in the dissolution of a marriage or love interest. Although many relationships improve through rough stages of money and sex, time and changing circumstances, as a rule most relationships go, visceral jealousy, but deeply rooted in a place that can later be deep in the soul of humanity, which are managed, but only rarely destroyed.

As difficult as it may seem to eliminate jealousy must be a central objective of those who want to acquire the self-control. This fight must be conducted with the conscience and the subconscious. Since all relationships can prey fall to present to a variety of scenarios, it is essential that the supervision over those emotions in check first understand the jealousy may have detrimental effects on the psyche lucid and secondly, that the consequences are qualified.

When I say, I talk about scenarios imagine scenes that the mind in the form of betrayal, real or imaginary produced without review. These films erode your opinion is suspect domestic production, anger, anxiety and irrational thinking. To achieve this self-control, you should know that all relationships have a purpose. The mere knowledge of a great love of all relationships in your life as a result of your actions in the past. Having established these relationships, it is now your responsibility to them by maintaining self-control. The question is, how? How is it possible to disable this tearing feeling that a normal person can change into someone who is without justification. Do you have the deductive and inductive or blame, if you introduce the subject of your jealousy?

The answer to address the elimination of jealousy, what causes these destructive emotions. What triggers the suspicion that the scenarios of betrayal and inflammatory accusations relations in ruins. Since the information in question is only a suspicion, then the factors involved, such as low self-esteem and / or lack of character.

Low self-esteem is the result of the perception of childhood. Families interact in an atmosphere of negativity, considerable damage to children in the household. These perceptions are maintained in later life and to inappropriate reactions when it is a questionable act in a relationship. Jealousy is a defense mechanism in response to lose that relationship fear. Someone who is comfortable with have a different sense of thinking and their reactions a higher level of maturity.

The second factor is the lack of character. A weak character is influenced by environmental events, circumstances and conditions against their will, and shows an anomaly. mental trends be contrary, critical, or resist them and denounce the lack of character. They are wrought iron with fear and anxiety and despair, impending disaster present in the relationship.

Strength of character is not insensitive to the situation, but uses his powers to determine the proper course of action. They know that if the light is made strong, the darkness disappears. A strong character has no fear, never worry, and is never discouraged. Those who are concerned about character development necessary. In adversity a strong character is not the jealousy and rage, the yield is attached. This is an abuse of power, but it is the duty of good character direct all energies.

Character development is an endless process. It is a conscious and subconscious of the negativity that creeps into our lives to be removed by adverse circumstances. What few know is that the more negative thoughts that we will withdraw our life is more positive life. By developing a strong character you increase your self-esteem. This is your reactions to these situations in the past provoked reactions of jealousy temperament.

Life is plagued with many relationships to endure some happy, while others scoff and ends by choice or by fate. Whatever the relationship is jealousy useless.