Your mental image is a combination of all the events that happened in your life and the importance you have attached to these events. Your imagination determines how good you feel about yourself and it has a profound influence on your actions.


Many men, like they are unsuccessful in the women feel they have developed a poor self image because of past mistakes. What they did is they actually have a kind of folder in their brains all the negative events that happened to them and reinforced the negative feelings created linked to them.


But the good news is that your brain is very flexible and can change its structure at any time. You can actually mold your brain so it can project a positive view of themselves. How can you do?


Well, first you have to keep in mind that your brain all your daily thoughts, habits and actions used to create your mental picture. Your mental image changes depending on what you see and interpret as a success or failure.


To change your negative image you have to start to experience at least one positive achievement. Every success you experience has a positive effect on your self-image. How can you start to experience success? Now you need to set positive goals for yourself and work hard to achieve them.


Start with small goals that you feel in your reach. Per example, if eye contact can be with a woman for more than 3 seconds, you can try to make eye contact and smiling gently at least 5 women every day for a week. Once you have managed to do that, you can move every day on the approach to 5 different women for the next two weeks. Then you can access phone numbers, etc, etc. .. move


With each goal you achieve, your self-image will improve and you will begin to have more confidence in themselves. assume you start to success and your technique will improve with time. When you finally reach the summit you would have planned to achieve, you will be filled with a wonderful sense of accomplishment and you have a brand new and positive mental image of you.


Developing a positive mental picture is essential if you meet women or want to achieve something in life for that matter. A negative self-image can be a real nightmare, but you do not have to live like this. Negotiate and set goals gradually larger as you get smaller. You'll see that with time, you will accumulate success after success, and in the end you will realize that it was completely new person ...

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